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ARE YOU TURNING YOUR GUY ON OR REPELLING HIM?
By Kristin Peterson & Michelle Liberman
 
AUG. 22, 2012
Men DO have opinions about women's fashions...and it may not be what you think.
Face it girls. Many times we put tremendous effort into the outfits that grace our bodies in the hopes that our guys will find us that much more attractive...but then their reactions make us feel like they wouldn't even notice if we were strutting our stuff down a Dolce & Gabbana runway.
But there are some men who have their two cents to put in when it comes to women's fashion. So when Glamour magazine asked 300 men if your 2012 trends turn him off, turn him on, or confused him, they definitely got an earful.
Here's the important question: If you sport the current trends on the list below, should you change it? Answer: Maybe. It depends on what and who you are dressing for. If you are dressing just for yourself and your own satisfaction and these trends help you feel hot, fierce, and confident, then have at it! Who knows, your confidence alone could be all that is needed to attract your guy.
But if your goal is to entice your guy with some sweet or sexy fashion, I'll be honest, a lot of men do not know a lot about women's fashion. With that being said, it is worth considering why these trends ended up on the list. For the most part, men don't always like what's hot now - many generally prefer what flatters your body shape the most. So, if you've been wearing the overalls and wide fedoras to grab his attention, you might want to reconsider and rock a pair of jeans sans hat instead.
THE POLL RESULTS:
Leather shorts -
Turned on...42%
Turned off...37%
Confused...21%
Wide fedoras -
Turned on...27%
Turned off...46%
Confused...27%
Sheer skirts -
Turned on...31%
Turned off...17%
Confused...52%
Overalls -
Turned on...23%
Turned off...55%
Confused...22%
HOW TO LOOK SKINNIER WITH NO CALORIE CUTS OR WORKING OUT!
By Kristin Peterson

AUG. 15, 2012
Tricking the eye with "Body Blocking." No, we're not talking football here, ladies.
Who wants to have a more fit looking body and look like you just lost a few pounds without having to hit the gym or do one of those cayenne cleanses? The new black and white "body blocking" trend helps women look sexy and slimmer. I have good news ladies, you don't have to skip dessert!
You're dying to know how on earth a dress can magically take off unwanted weight? It's all about tricking the eye. The panels on the side are barely visible which in turn forces one to focus on the white portion of the dress-giving the illusion of having a more slender and oh so sexy figure. Every woman needs an outfit like that in her closet!
To buy this slimming essential, click here.
SHOP WITH YOUR FRIENDS, EVEN WHEN YOU'RE ALONE!
By Michelle Liberman

AUG. 08, 2012
The Shopping Friend and Pickn'Tell have partnered up to bring you a unique, fun, and easier way to shop with a fun and engaging new app.
This brand new app just launched a couple weeks ago! It is still growing and is building a community of users and retailers. The more retailers it works with the more valuable the app is in helping you choose the best outfits in the dressing room!
How It Works:
You’re in the dressing room, you’ve tried on 20 pairs of jeans and you just aren't sure which ones look the best for your booty. Use the Pickn’ Tell self-picture taking tool, capture the video of yourself at all angles so your friends can get a nice, close up view of each pair, then share it with your Pickn’Tell contacts. You can also share with your friends on other social networks like Facebook and Twitter! Click on the video above to see exactly how it works. In the video, the store has a Pickn'Tell screen, which participating stores will have.
Your friends can give you instant feedback on each item even as you’re out shopping alone! As a personal stylist, this is a useful tool my clients can utitlize when they need help choosing pieces for their wardrobes.You can even scan the barcodes of items you’re considering for future reference.
Check it out!
THEY LIKE US! THEY REALLY LIKE US!
by Michelle Liberman

AUG. 08, 2012
Okay, so maybe they don't REALLY like us. But they do like us some! Here's the Press Release!
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
*Personal Shopper / Personal Stylist* The Shopping Friend Receives 2012 Los Angeles Award
Los Angeles Award Program Honors the Achievement
LOS ANGELES August 1, 2012 – The Shopping Friend has been selected for the 2012 Los Angeles Award in the Life Coaches category by the Los Angeles Award Program.
Each year, the Los Angeles Award Program identifies companies that we believe have achieved exceptional marketing success in their local community and business category. These are local companies that enhance the positive image of small business through service to their customers and our community. These exceptional companies help make the Los Angeles area a great place to live, work and play.
Various sources of information were gathered and analyzed to choose the winners in each category. The 2012 Los Angeles Award Program focuses on quality, not quantity. Winners are determined based on the information gathered both internally by the Los Angeles Award Program and data provided by third parties.
About Los Angeles Award Program
The Los Angeles Award Program is an annual awards program honoring the achievements and accomplishments of local businesses throughout the Los Angeles area. Recognition is given to those companies that have shown the ability to use their best practices and implemented programs to generate competitive advantages and long-term value.
The Los Angeles Award Program was established to recognize the best of local businesses in our community. Our organization works exclusively with local business owners, trade groups, professional associations and other business advertising and marketing groups. Our mission is to recognize the small business community’s contributions to the U.S. economy.
SOURCE: Los Angeles Award Program
CONTACT:
Los Angeles Award Program
Email: PublicRelations@awardprogram.org
URL: http://www.awardprogram.org
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SUMMER LOVIN' SUMMER STYLIN' FOR THE LADIES!
by Michelle Liberman

APR. 12, 2010
Summer lovin, had me some fu-un
Summer lovin, dressed for the su-un,
Saw a dress, cute as can bee-ee!
Bought some sandals, they’re just sex-xy-eee…
Okay, so maybe they’re not the exact lyrics from the movie. Close enough. Picky aren’t you?
Spring is here and summer is not far behind! How do you prepare for spring and summer? Exercise? Starvation…er, I mean diet? Tanning salon? Shopping….?
Personally, I prefer the latter – summer style! Spring and summer fashions are always indicative of the excitement that’s ahead for our lives at the beginning of the year. Everything is fresh, new, colorful, exuberant, bright! Warmer month fashions are one of the main reasons to celebrate the end of the lackluster winter months and the start of something refreshing!
Light and airy sundresses. Sexy and revealing sandals. Gorgeous goddess maxi dresses. Cute shorts. Rockin rompers (all the rage this summer). Sassy skirts. Bare shoulders, arms, and legs shown off and complimented with these fun and exuberant fashions! Summer dressing is nothing short of brilliant! Don’t dread the summer months, marvel in them. Any body type can look dazzling in the right summer clothes.
Fluid fabrics and styles allow for more flow and freedom with your movements (comfort is necessary, especially in the warmer seasons) and many summer dresses, tops, and bottoms are flattering while also being forgiving on most body shapes. So go check out some slinky, gorgeous, and fun summer inspiration!
DRESSING FABULOUSLY CASUAL
by Michelle Liberman

FEB. 17th, 2010
What’s casual to you? Sweats? Jeans? A funky dress? Dressy pants? A short skirt? Sexy boots? Converses? Answer: any of it.
Casual dressing, for many, suggests unfussy or careless throwing together of things. What that can result in, sometimes, is a walking fashion disaster if you are actually being “careless.” If you’re making this blunder of looking like a frumpster and calling it casual, stop. It’s time to re-define your style definition of “casual.” Casual dressing implies free and easy; not showing effort or strain. Casual dressing is NOT haphazard dressing.
What we actually all want, in the name of “casual,” is effortless style. We all want it. We all can have it. There is a feasible way to put together an outfit by just grabbing any old thing in your closet and having it look marvelous. Every item in your closet must fit and flatter you.
Effortless style requires some effort, of course. The effort lies in understanding how clothing can look amazing on you (anything from sweat pants and sneaks to a cocktail dress and heels). Yes, even your sweats, jeans, and workout shorts can flatter you and look great. The trick? Fit. Make sure every item of clothing you wear fits your body well.
Effortless manner (the ease and comfort with which you wear your clothes) also comes into play with casual style. Do not mistake comfort and ease with frumpy, loose, and ill-fitting. Too many people err in that direction in fear of looking like they’ve “tried too hard. Be comfortable…in clothes that fit.
Nowadays, the popular trend of the slouchy style shirt helps polish the informal look. Gorgeous designs in light, beautiful fabrics cascade down the body. They are fantastic “sophisticated casual” pieces because the shapes and fabrics are striking and flattering for many body types while the flowing design evokes a sense of freedom and laid backness. Casual. Effortless beauty. It’s a wonderful thing. Just make sure your slouchy style shirt actually fits you and follows the contour lines of your body and isn’t just….well, sloppy. These pieces are versatile because they can be easily dressed up as well.
So whether your idea of casual is “sophisticated,” “pretty,” “grungy,” “punk rock,” “sexy,”….the sky’s the limit with your casual attire expressions. Casual is what’s casual to YOU. What you feel free and effortless in. I’m sure you’ve noticed the theme of this article on what makes casual successfully stylish = Fit. Make sure you dump the frump, and ensure that everything fits you well.
HOW TO FIND THE PERFECT GIFT
by Michelle Liberman
DEC. 15th, 2009
December is here and shopping is in the air!
The holidays are officially here! And we all know what that means. Finding that perfect gift. There is nothing more gratifying than watching the face of someone we love beam over a gift that lets them feel appreciated and shows that you really thought of them when buying it. Achieving this can sometimes be harder to do than finding the Holy Grail.
The Shopping Friend is here to help you this year. No, I’m not going to list a bunch of cool items for you to “pick” from. That’s not very thoughtful or unique. Sometimes the person you’re buying for may be very easy to buy for. They may have already expressed that they want the Flip camera or a gift card from Whole Foods. Or maybe they’re easy and are happy with absolutely anything. There are just those people who are grateful and happy for anything you give them (wooden carving of a bunny, an airport gift shop snow globe, a fridge magnet…) bless their souls.
There are gifts that would be pretty spectacular for anyone. Flying a fighter jet, being able to dive down to the Titanic in a submarine, tickets to the Super Bowl, or creating a life for a week where you can be James Bond or a supermodel. If you don’t have a kajillion dollars, then read on.
We’ll go through the process that professional personal shoppers go through to find that “just right” gift for someone and pass that knowledge on to you! The perfect gift really depends on the individual. It may take a little bit of time (and I don’t mean like weeks or anything – so sit down, your loved one is worth it) and let’s get started!
First, know who you’re shopping for. I don’t mean, “I’m shopping for Kelly.” Do they love sports? Do they scrapbook? Do they like to buy art? Do they like to paint art? Do they like to cook? Do they like to be taken to fancy restaurants? Do they like animals? Do they like hiking? You get the picture. Make a list of all the things you know they really like.
Second, do a little research on the things they like. Hey! Sit down. You love them. They are worth it. Research some of their interests as if it’s yours. For example, if you’re a guy and you like football, would you want your girl to get you a football magnet because they know you like football or would you like it if they did a little research, found out when the next game was in the closest stadium to your town, and got you tickets? Or what if they did a little more research, discovered your favorite player on your favorite team, and got you an autographed football from them? The results that can come from just a little bit of research is astounding! So if you know your girl likes to knit, don’t just buy her yarn! Find out all the knitting needles that exist, think of what you know she likes to knit (if it’s sweaters, that requires bigger needles), and buy her the appropriate materials to meet her heart’s desire. Simple!
Third, once you have determined their interests, hobbies, and desires. Ask yourself if they would prefer an experience or a tangible product. For example, if you know your wife likes dancing, do you decide to buy her a package of dance lessons (experience), buy her new dance shoes or a dancing dress(product), or take her out on the town to dance with her (romantic experience). This last one guys, is always the best. The romantic experience. Keep that one always in mind. If you can somehow tie in romance into an interest or hobby of theirs, you will be golden for at least several weeks.
That’s all there is to it! Easy breezy. Now, of course, if you just absolutely don’t have time, or you’re trying to find that “perfect, unique gift” for 14 people, maybe you want to hire some help. Enlist a friend or another family member or call The Shopping Friend.
Lastly, you may want to consider the gift of a personal shopper or stylist for your loved one. The Shopping Friend has been a gift to many a spouse, girlfriend or boyfriend, or even someone’s child. It’s a very unique gift, an extraordinary service of pampering and feeling special, and most people would never even think of it! Plus, it falls under both categories of experience and product. You buy them the experience of shopping with a personal stylist/shopper and they also get the benefit of the clothes! (Don’t forget to give them money for the actual shopping!)
In the end, we all know what the true spirit of the holidays really entails. We know what’s really important – expensive gifts. No. That was a test. If you agreed, you failed. So even if you can’t find the perfect gift for your spouse or you don’t receive exactly what you want come Christmas or Hanukkah day, be thankful you have someone you love so much that you’d spend time trying to get them something special or thankful you have someone in your life who loves you enough to even get you a gift! More power to love!!
Happy Holidays from The Shopping Friend!!
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